Self development, Self-dependence, Self-recognition or it can be said being practical to survive in this era of competitive world. Giving so much importance to self and leaving behind the closest people has now become the necessity to achieve goal, to fulfill ambition. To achieve success, we move out from our own place, we give up all our comforts. It is a fact that if a fish can swim in pond can swim in river as well.  But it is very hard for him to tackle new challenges there. same is the case with people from small cities or villages. Many comes out from their parental support and live alone. No matter whether a boy or a girl, the challenges are same. They work hard and die for their dreams. But the truth is not each and every person get for what they have come out of home. Many among them get influenced by the external factors. They involve and get stuck in those factors so badly that they forget their reason of leaving their loved ones. The reason is that their cultural and ethical roots are week. Those who are able to discriminate their ambition from their flourishing desires, get what they want. The only way to survive is to behold their ambition. If anything is not helping to reach to that goal, don't do it. If anyone stopping to move towards success, leave him.

"Om asato ma sad gamaya
Tamaso ma jyotir gamaya
Mrityor ma amritam gamaya
Om shantih shantih shantih"